In Pride and Prejudice when one thinks of marriage one thinks of the women within the book always being in search of a man for economic security of their inheritance. The theme of Marriage is seen as of utmost importance to every woman within the novel.
In the case of the Bennets, Mr and Mrs Bennet have a marriage that is not based on love. Mr Bennet is said to be a man that was ‘so odd a mixture of quick parts, sarcastic humour, reserved and caprice,’ in comparison to his wife of twenty three years where she was ‘ of mean understanding of little information and uncertain temper’ this was a recipe for disaster of marriage. Elizabeth Bennet looks upon this marriage and sees her father just tolerating her mother. And he even confesses regret in marrying her from this we can see their marriage was not as loving as it should be but actually broken.
This broken marriage affects the children in the novel, this is observed when reading their behavioural patterns through out the novel. Children tend to take sides of either parent and in some cases such for love outside of the home. This is seen in the character Lydia running away with Mr. Wickham even though she is the youngest. In other cases it makes some children stronger such as in the case of Elizabeth and she views marriage as something she can do without; because she sees it as being a tolerable matter only.
In today’s society staying in an unhappy marriage only brings distress to the children. It is better to be separated or divorced than staying in a house causing the children to have resentment for one parent over another. However, if the parent remains in the marriage for the children’s sake the parent is further stressed and depressed as if trapped from their true emotions. Though there are many cases for which persons stay in unhappy marriage these include lack of finances, or they may have no where else to go. The parent should learn to become independent again and not dependent on anyone for the sake of their children.